How long do we need to do it?

 Do we really need the acceptance and approval of other people if we ourselve not happy for what other people wants us?

Why is it hard for us to act normal when it is embbed to a person to please other, who act in accordance with what should the other people might say, that we always thing of what they say to us, I am saying their opinion here, I am not saying the right or wrong, the immoral or moral, the what most of people perceive to be wrong or right. 

I am saying the lawful act by a person, but most of people will critize you for it is not the way most people do

I am saying that people will critize your way of living when it does fit to what many people perceived as a rightful thing to do to succeed. 

So I am talking with how people should do to succeed in life, 

The society thinks most of the people say that in order to succeed in life, you should work hard, learn and persevere, but how can I normal employee will succeed workinh 8 hrs with a very little salary who work hard, persevere and did all the qualities of great employee? To which most of people around us do, we work 8 hrs full time, then we go home and then repeat it the next day, because we are afraid of what people think if we quit our job and do the risk of doing business, because starting over is fightening.

On the otherhand, what is a quality of a businessman who will most likely succeed, it is the same thing, work hard and persevere, among the two, what do you think is the way to succeed, the employee or the businessman who start from the scractch without nothing with him, knowledge and experience, they say as well that use your employement, save and out up a business until that business csn now support you without your employment, for how long then?