I am not special nothing's special about me

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 What really makes us special is how we think, I just realize, we will be what we think we are going to be, most often than not, it just this word make our lives more interesting because the road to success is not easy, we just had different paths, struggles and how we likewise how we fight our fears in mind and how strong our thinking.

some people are very determined and do not easily give up from frustrations, insults, and failure and that add up to the factors on how fast we get our goals in life.

other than this is because of the people around us, our environment plays very important role in achieving our goals in life, other has very exposed to very goal minded people. 

other has very dynamic people that has very different perspective in life, where in their happiness comes from different motivation and not every thing is about their goals in life.

what I am trying to say is not about what is right and wrong about our goals in life, some people are not into getting what best for them and settle for less, and they are already fine with what they, other people has the attitide of having relatives whom they get their resources and that they live and fine with that, since people around them will help them if anything happens with their life, especially with some health and financial problems.

some culture like in the Philippines are often time live with extended family, where in we usually live with our parent even after marrying and having their offspring, what makes this a disadvantage is when there is already some of the member of the family always expects something from other member of the family like their livelihood, their foods and shelter are just given to them by the member who works, this now has a big factor in getting where you want to be in the future, your goal in life. This goals may not necessarily mean to be rich in the future, but also what are you happiness and your self-fulfillment in life, when someone is always on the verge of the falling, the person will find something to hold-on, this is usually his/her siblings and parents, and if you are the one who is working hard to get you goal in the future with someone who is always expecting from you it maybe resources like money and food, this factor add up to slow down you in pursuing and getting your goal in life.

this may not make any sense or that I lack of explanation from what I am pointing, what I really want to share is that if we love one another we should help each other in life, we should learn to fish our resources on our own, people should teach people how to fish not to always give them a fish to eat. 

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