Why do people see the recognition in their life as basis of their happiness?

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This is so tiring to read, this is so tiring for the people who are chasing their happiness base of other perception of their fellowman.

This is sad, you want to be in, in order for other people to look at you as a cool person, for example, you want to buy fancy things like phones, cars, having a big houses just for the people around you look at you as one of member of their group.

Today working from morning to late afternoon, coming from a long travel approximately travel for almost 300km back forth alone, and then I arrive at my dormitory. While I am travelling I have some stop over just to take a break a appreciate the beauty of the place, so I took a video of it , there are pictures as well.

coming home I come to think what If I edit this videos and put background music on it and put if in facebook, so I may have to share the journey of today, and yes I did it, post it in myday and there are lots of reactions from see the beauty of the journey.

Having this recognition what I realize that I took a bit happiness from this recognition that they think that I really have a enjoyable life working here, I was alone and I don't have a friends here, all of my friend are in internet world, talking to my family , but then what is really like to be in my situaion if I am alone and I really don't have that enjoyable moment as they seen in my post on facebook.

My point is , this post made them think that I really have a enjoyable life here alone, but the reality is I just make it as much a enjoyable just to motivate myself from loneliness.

That is the recognition from other people that make a person happy, but I realize that is not happiness, the moment people will see what are your real struggles in life, how boring you are, they will not see you as successful or an happy person as they have seen your post on facebook.

The truth is we should not base our happiness to the outside but it should be in the inner part of your life.


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