They say you have to focus on what you really want in life

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Is it really things get better when in times of hardship you focus on what is beautiful ahead of your life, rather than thinking how painful you life in the present?

I do not know if it is just me, but I really think sometimes when I am experiencing hardship in life then, I tried to motivate myself to keep on going and focus on what is good ahead of time, it seems that life is getting harder and harder, that is why sometimes my frustration is going more painful , because life is just getting harder and harder but I do not really getting ahead.

and I realized also that really, it is true that whenever you experience hardship in the moment of your life, and you keep on moving forward, you keep telling your self that you can do it, you can make it, then it is more that you really can, life is not getting easier and easier is getting harder and harder as life goes on, maybe it is just because you are just getting stronger and stronger how to face the reality of life, because if you look at the past, life is much harder now, than before.

But if we just keep on crying out what happened to our life right now, it just more painful and it stops you from going on, which makes you even slower to get moving, because you stopped from moving forward by pitying yourself. 

See, that is life we live in. 

sometimes, we just take the life, as it goes, just keep moving, I think, we do not expect it to happen in near future then, expectation hurts, but we still need to keep moving toward that goal we want in life, rather than stopping and quitting for a while because life seems so hard and then come back again towards the life we want, that means you just wasted time for quitting and it is more harder than before you stop.

that is why, 1. we keep moving even it is harder

2. because if we stop, then we came back to that goal again, it is much harder than before.


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